You wanna feel sexy right?
You wanna feel desired?
And you sure want to be comfortable wearing what you want, when you want don’t you?!
Of course you do, who wouldn’t right?!
You don’t want to just blend in like everyone else
You wanna to stand out in the crowd,
And you damn well wanna turn heads for all the right reasons too don’t you?
Well fear not my desperate for answers friend as I’m about to share with you 7 simple ways that will sky rocket your self esteem and have you looking and feeling F****** awesome!
And what does high self esteem + feeling awesome equal?
And confidence my friend is the key to unlocking desirability!
Say you were to strut whilst oozing self confidence people would notice, I pretty much guarantee it
Now you want this in your life don’t you?!
No s*** you do
But not only are you going to be oozing self confidence from reading and implementing these steps but your health will benefit from it too
Yes I know, I’m a legend!
But don’t thank me yet
First read the post and implement the 7 steps then thank yourself for doing so
As I am merely the guide here
I’m like the guy with the starters pistol, my role is of utmost importance in getting the race started but there’s no way I can influence the outcome
That’s down to the runner
And in this case, you are the runner and you’re going to have run your own race in order to reap the benefits
So here goes Mr or Mrs soon to be ‘sexy and you know it’
Are you ready?
As your journey to desirability and boundless confidence begins right now!
1. Quit Smoking
I’m sure I cannot be alone here but does the smokers stench or the sight of yellow nicotine stained fingers deflate your labido boat faster than a shark attacked Lilo?
Back then smoking was made the no.1 thing to be done by iconic sex symbols such as Audrey Hepburn, it showed you had class and money but nowadays it’s about as sexy as Susan Boyle in pair of sequinned hot pants, eeeuuuwwww!
Now If you’re already a non smoker, then give yourself a high 5 my friend as you’ve already completed step 1.
However, if you’re still toking on those old nicotine death sticks then seriously dude (or dudette) you have to consider quitting as the benefits in doing so are much more than simply becoming highly desirable!
For one, a reduced toxin load (you literally inhale millions with every puff) will help lower your of risk of inflammatory illnesses such as cancer.
Secondly, toxins cling to fat cells, meaning that you retain/store more water making weight loss or maintaining a leaner physique that much harder
Lastly you could save yourself a bucket load of cash that you can treat yourself more with or put to better uses like investing into one or more of my next 6 steps that will only enhance your desirability.
2. Get Supermodel hair and skin
Ever watched an advert and been in awe at the shine of so and so’s hair or thingummybobs skin?
Which by the way can actually make you fatter and unhealthier as the chemicals they contain can leech into the body through the skin and into the blood stream making your body a pretty toxic place
Anyhoo, you don’t need to waste your hard earned cash on the next celebrity endorsed miracle wonder face cream or orgasm inducing conditioners as you can get all you need from natural sources
Simply by adding the right foods into diet you can combat any unwanted skin problems and replace them instead with great looking, blemish free smooth skin that simply defies natures ageing process
Or rid yourself of that lifeless mop and have hair that is strong and full of shine and dandruff free
And there’s no secret recipe, no weird ritual of bathing in banana skins and rubbing wet mud into you face for an hour everyday for like ever!
Though I would like to see someone try it
No, all you have to do is have these foods regularly in your diet, it seriously is that simple 🙂
The list of foods are as follows:
Blueberries – No.1 food source for antioxidants that help prevent against anti-aging.
Wild Salmon (not farm raised) – along with being a fantastic source of omage-3 fatty acids and vitamin D also contains selenium that protects the skin from sun exposure,
Spinach – this superfood packs an impressive nutrient and vitamin load vital for hair and skin health
Tomatoes – not only do they help fight cancer they are also cram packed with the anti-aging antioxidant lycopene.
Walnuts – a great source of omega-3 fatty acids and vitamin E makes for healthier hair and smoother skin.
Kiwi – loaded with vitamin C and antioxidants that keeps the skin firm and prevents wrinkles.
Sweet Potato – packed with beta-carotene that fights aging.
Poultry – contains iron and zinc as well as vital B vitamins. B vits help to keep strands strong and plentiful
Lentils – are another excellent food source that contain iron and zinc and should be part of any stable diet.
Eggs – contain 4 key minerals, zinc, selenium, sulfur and iron. Iron is especially important as it helps to carry oxygen to the hair follicles, too little iron can lead to hair loss.
Oysters – a fantastic source of zinc which aids skin cell renewal and keeps, hair, skin, nails and eyes healthy.
And believe it or not…
Dark chocolate – though it does need to be a minimum of 70% cocoa to be of any use. Cocoa contains an abundance of antioxidants but more than that they contain flavanols that protect against UV damage. Whilst cacoa, the pure for of cocoa adds shine and rebuilds hair structure
Not only does it make for the best and healthiest cooking oil on the planet but rubbing coconut oil into your scalp and skin can have the following benefits
Stimulates hair growth by penetrating deep into its follicles.
Promotes the scalp health by fighting against such problems as insect bites, lice and dandruff.
Moisturises dry hair.
Adds strength, volume, shine and softness to the hair.
Prevents against hair breakage and split ends, contributing to hair length.
Slows down hair loss.
So what are you waiting for, starting using coconut oil on your hair to make a shine like a supermodel. Here’s how to apply. Apply the coconut oil to the scalp and hair combing it through so to reach every strand. For the very best results it is advisable to warm the oil before applying. Massage the oil into the scalp, then leave overnight and wash in the morning with shampoo.
And not only will you see great results but your hair will smell sensational too
3. resistance train
Resistance training is by far the easiest way to unlock the sense of feeling sexier and more confident
Simply put….lifting weights promotes lean muscle mass and everyone loves a muscular or toned bod don’t they?!
If you’re more confident in your body then you’re going to have a damn sight more confidence in yourself too
There’s no real big secret too it either
Lift heavy to add more muscle and bulk or lift lower but more often to add tone and definition
Or simply train with just body weight exercises for a complete muscular workout
6 exercises that I base my guaranteed results 28 day ‘drop a jean size’ fitness camps around are the squat, lunge, plank, press up, Burpee and the sprint
Simply by adding these into you life at least 3 times a week will help you to gain muscles mass, elevate your metabolism and therefore burning fat more efficiently making for a leaner, more athletic looking you. And by adding more resistance through weights, medicine balls, kettlebells etc you will only enhance this metabolic effect
The choice really is yours but what ever you choose, ensure you include an element of resistance to your workouts at least twice a week.
4. Eat Clean
Eating clean has to be the new sexy!
As not only will it help you achieve supermodel hair and fantastic skin
Eating cleaner will also help you maintain that body as you avoid less desirable places like fast food joints and fat packed takeaways
Hey I’m not knocking them (well desperately trying not too anyway) as anything, even them in moderation is fine, but I’m sure you’d rather be eating quality food, cooked by a quality chef in your towns best eatery right?
But that’s not the only benefit,
As there are some other pretty awesome benefits too
You can improve your digestion and reduce those unwanted and sometimes unexpected gassy moments.
Reduce mucus levels so you’re not a sniffly, nose dribbling mess half the year
Boost your immune system so that you’re not battling one cold after another
Balance your hormone levels so you’re more happy Harry rather than stresses out Susan or worn out Warren!
Build more lean muscle by blending resistance workouts with appropriate intakes of quality naturally sourced proteins
And send your energy and vitality levels through the roof
The benefits of eating clean are pretty endless, in fact I can’t see any bad point against them at all, except that for some reason eating good can cost you a little more!
5. Get more sleep
Did you know not sleeping enough can increase the ageing process?
Now that’s not going to make anyone look and feel any more desirable unless they’re the old Silver Fox himself or that Helen Mirren bird.
And I’ll tell you something else that lack of quality sleep ain’t gonna help you with either, those panda eyes or that grizzly early morning temper where your lack of sleep has led you to wake in a stressed state leaving you ready to bite the frickin head off of each and all that cross your path until lunch time or when you’ve consumed enough caffeine to stimulate a rhino
Lack of sleep also leads to carb craving and eventual weight gain so not a good combo whatsoever!
My top tip to get quality sleep is to get 7-9 hours per night and try to hit the sack by 10pm at least 5 times a week.
You see the quality of sleep you get between 10 and 1 is worth double of any over time of day or night.
Sleep is the time when the body recovers, rejuvenates and regenerates and it needs adequate time to get the job done properly
And by getting enough sleep you just might not rely so heavily on the most consumed drug on the planet every morning to kick start your day …caffeine!!!
6. Play more
And no, I’m not meaning become a bum!
Play keeps you active, and it’s even more important if you have children as it’s a great way to bond and keep the family healthy
Play, or exercise, depending on how you perceive it is not only great for your health, but it’s also fantastic for your soul too and will have you brimming with confidence
But what makes exercise so special to helping you feel sexier?
Well it’s because it releases a special hormone
And this hormone is called endorphins, now these hormones are often known as the happy hormones as they leave you bouncing after a great workout.
And nothing boosts your confidence more than winning a game or completing a kick ass workout does it
It may not feel it at the time when you’re drenched in sweat, red faced and gasping for air
But once past that point, once those hormones start flooding through your body you’re going to be feeling on top of the world
King or Queen of your own realm ready to take on and kick ass at whatever life throws at you
Take time in your day to rest and play as both are and equally important lifestyle recommendation. Rest will help you relax and de-stress, whereas as play will do the same but add a sense if achievement as well as that welcome boost as those happy hormones flood through your body
Do you ever feel a little like a stressed out Susan or wound up Wayne?
Then meditation might be your saviour
Your knight in shining armour
Learning the arts of freeing your mind from the daily stresses that can bring down even the toughest of characters could be one of your last keys to unlocking the door to desirability
After all, the stressed out look isn’t extremely appealing is it
Neither is the bad temper or short fuse that often stress associates with
And like attracts like after all
Stress will always attract stress just as smile will always attract another
So learn to chill out more, take time to focus and you will see the world with so much more clarity
And by combining the above with your new found or elevated confidence levels you’ll soon become the coolest kid on the block since the Fonz!
My challenge to you
And its purely down to you to try this but
For at least 14 days, implement these 7 steps and I guarantee that you’ll be amazed at how your stress levels drop, your feel good moods elevate to awesomeness proportions and your jeans fit a little bit better!
And by doing this people WILL notice you and they WILL comment
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Dedicated to your health and fitness
Simon ‘sexy and you know it’ Anderson
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